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Phase 2: Storm Setting

If differences persist and feelings escalate, what do you do then?
K. I put considerable effort into making sure our communication is good. I state clearly what I want and make sure the other person feels heard as well.
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L. I put forth greater effort to state the truth or get the job done, and I put less effort into pleasing others.
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M. I try to be reasonable by reducing my demands, but I insist on getting some of what I want.
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N. I back off and let things rest as they are, even if it means that none of us gets what we really want.
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O. I set aside my own preferences and go along with the other person so as not to damage our relationship.
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P. I move away from the topic or the person causing difficulties and look for ways to keep a safe distance without actually giving in.
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Q. I focus more on my goals and less on how others feel about things.
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R. I see how much the other cares about the matter and give in. I adapt so there is harmony.
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S. I focus on mutual understanding; I go to great lengths to make sure that I really understand why others are upset and that they understand why I am upset.
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T. I urge moderation and compromise. Everyone should accept a little less than what they really want so we can get on with things.
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